Does Fighting Make Relationships Stronger?

Ok, so this is more of a question and something to ponder, but I think there might be something to it and wanted to include it as a tip.
This study shows that in relationships (at least romantic ones), having arguments in the beginning should mean you’re headed towards a steady incline in happiness. Some psychologists also say that fighting every now and then means you care about the relationship—it’s when you stop arguing about your issues that you should be concerned. It’s definitely something to think about, I admit.
Ultimately, just remember that we’re all doing the best we can when it comes to making time for one another, which also includes not being too hard on yourself if you’re feeling like an imperfect friend or partner. Just take a step back to prioritize every once in a while. Be sure to give the relationships you care most about the time and energy they deserve!

C-CUBE MAKES HISTORY AGAIN

The Catholic Creativity Club (C3) on Sunday Created history again when their Concert Themed G. R. A. C. E (GOD REDEMPTION AT CHRIST EXPENSE) ended on a high.  The group who is an affiliate of the Nigerian federation of of Catholic Students (NFCS)  Ahmadu Bello University Zaria chapter,  on Sunday the 9th of September 2018 Held her Yearly Concert. The concert which was aimed at preaching to the World the Love of Christ over us Ended with the heavens rejoicing for the new souls which were won.
The concert just when it Got to the pic During a ministration from House of David titled "SLEEP" Had an alter Call where over 10persons gave their life to Christ on the alter and over 100people Rededicated Their life's to Christ the concert which started at about 07:15pm and ended at 09:50pm had guest appearances from  PRESH, SPOKESMAN, And NFCS MASS CHOIR
The concert held an attendance of Over 400 persons both Abusites and Non Abusites.. The concert had a first of a kind live streaming As sponsored by one of her Generals ESUABOM THEOPHILUS CHUKWUKA (E. T. C).
It can be said that nothing like what happened at our lady queen of peace parish Zaria blue roof has ever happened before.
It's also reported that there were still variations of ministrations which were not ministered that night.
GRACE IS THE NEW SWAG
C-CUBE!!
CREATIVITY!!!!
©PRINCE MATTHEW.

G. R. A. C. E

The Catholic creativity Club, commonly known as c-cube is a branch under NFCS ABU ZARIA CHAPTER. C-cube is popularly known for its creativity in the form of dance, drama and expressions.  In a bid to break out of the status quo of Catholics being "boring", four young men head by (Idibia, Tony Onum) they came together and thus c-cube was born.

Right from 2005, C-cube  has been breaking the norm and blowing our minds.  As is an annual tradition,  C-cube holds a concert which ministers to the indigenes of ABU, ZARIA for one night only.  And I can honestly say that the concert changes lives. For those of us that can not remember too far back,  may be I can jog your memory with the tag MIA (MISSING IN ACTION 2015). right after that C-cube hit us again with COPS(C-CUBITES OBEDIENTLY PREACHING SALVATION 2016) then once again with BIG (BOASTING IN GOD 2017).

This year C-cube is back again with this year's concert tagged as G.R.A.C.E. (GOD'S REDEMPTION AT CHRIST'S EXPENSE 2018) and trust me when I say you do not want to miss out on this.  Ministrations will be from House of David,  Creative Theatre, Divine Rhythm and Creative Expressions  and the one and only SPOKESMAN. This year is one that you do not want to be told about.  On Sunday the 9th of September 2018 by 6:00pm (red carpet) in Pope John Paul  II hall (blue roof). Be there or be square!
©Grace Davidson
©©Prince Matthew

Mom Ruined My Tomorrow

They call it spiritual, 
They call it ethical. 
They call it universal, 
They call it motherly. 
They call it usual,
They call it mutual. 

shut your eyes, and think of your tomorrow.
Shut you mouth, and speak less of sorrow. 
Take a bold step, and aim forward, 
You know your tomorrow. 

September 1999, it all started. 
In the white house of "stitches and newcomers".
My cry filled the theater,
I was successfully born. 

Like the three "idiots",
Dad carried me, and called me a doctor, 
Mom looked at me, and called me a nurse,
Leaving me with no choice of my own. 

I grew up, loving what i hate, 
And forced to cherish what gives me agony. 
Mom wants me to do her wish, 
Dad wouldnt let go off me.

They thought they were making me better, 
Rather, they were killing me within. 
Call me dad! 
For he couldn't see my future. 
Call me mom! 
For killing my tomorrow. 

Chemistry was made breakfast,
And biology was made my lunch. 
Physics  was made my dinner, 
Wished they made my choice, the last supper. 

Mom scolded me for failing, 
Dad blasted me for repeating. 
Have they forgotten  i got an "A" in literature, 
And a distinction in English. 

They tore my essays, and called them trash. 
They tore my poems, and swept them out. 
They sold doughnuts with my storybook, 
And turned my drawing book,  to weed wrappers. 

They wasted their money on tutors, 
And paid millions on tuitions.
They took me to the best,
While i fall behind the rest. 

Suddenly! Michael gained admission. 
Mom could no longer watch me, sit my ass at home.
Special center became my home, 
And expo my half brother. 

At last i gained admission!
To study medicine and surgery . 
Daddy was happy, 
And mommy was joyous.

I knw i wouldnt make it there, 
I knew i was going to fail. 
But mom had "long legs",
she could not watch me fail.

I was depressed and dead within, 
I smiled and laughed though. 
I was not even sure of my future, 
Because those i call family, tampered with it. 

I did 7 courses, but happily, i passed one. 
I took interest in GNS101, and got an A. 
Medical courses were written in "Latins",
Words my brain cant comprehend.

Mom "long legs" pulled enough strings, 
And her connection got the right people. 
My results were upgraded,
And i was ironically among the best. 

Years went by, with no experience. 
Semesters went by, with no knowledge of medicine.
Blame me not, i have no interest. 
laugh me not, mum pushed me into this. 

I graduated as one of the best, 
Thanks to mum's strings.
I finally fufilled dad's wish, 
And made mom dream come through. 

She got the name she craves "iya doctor",
And the praises she had always wanted.
She was exalted,as the mother of the best doctor, 
Little did they know the magnitude of what she has done. 

Finally, the deal day came!
The Senator was rushed in,
They shouted Emergency!  emergency! 
And they called me to prepare for his treatment. 

With fear, i cautiously walked to his ward. 
And i carefully administered formaldehyde , glutaraldehyde , methanol , to the sick senator, 
Little did i know they were only used in preserving the dead. 

The senator was later reported dead, 
And an autopsy was carried out.
They saw my flaws, and got me arrested for manslaughter,
Now i am here awaiting judgement. 

The fierce looking judge had no pity,
i saw his scornful face. 
Face that spelt death, 
And a lip, that gives judgement. 

He blamed me for my ignorance, 
And sentenced me to death. 
I looked at mom with regrets, 
"Had she known"
Thank mom for killing my tomorrow, 
Thank dad for sponsoring my death.

I should have resisted when i was old enough, 
But my religion said "obey thy mother and thy father, so thy day may be long"

*#FIGHT FOR YOUR FUTURE *
*#MAKE YOUR PASSION YOUR PROFESSION*
*#DONT LET PEOPLE DICTATE YOUR FUTURE,*
*#LIFE HARDLY GIVES A SECOND CHANCE. *
Please Help Someone Today, Save a Soul.
©HumphreyFrancis
©©Prince Matthew

BENUE ASSEMBLY CONFIRMS ATSER AS BIRS CHAIRMAN

The Benue State House of Assembly today screened and confirmed Mr Terzungwe Atser as the Chairman of the Board of the Benue State Internal Revenue Service, BIRS.

With this appointment,  Mr. Atser has become the 10th Chairman of BIRS. He will be in charge of the state tax authority for the next four years.

The confirmation of Mr. Atser's appointment of followed the adoption of the motion moved by Hon. Joseph Ojabo, after  members expressed satisfaction his responses to the questions asked by the members of the House.

Mr Atser who until his appointment was the Acting Head of the planning, Research and Strategy Department  of the Federal Inland Revenue Service, FIRS, told the House that he intends to use his wealth of experience not just to boost the Internally Generated Revenue, IGR, of the state, but to also sustain it.

He stressed the need to turn away from Manual processes of collecting revenue to electronic means, and highlighted measures taken by the BIRS to deal with illegal road blocks and  multiple taxation.

Mr Atser holds a B.Sc. in Economics from the Benue State University, and a Masters of Business Administration (MBA)  from the same institution.

He was employed  in 2010 by  the Federal Inland Revenue Service as Assistant Director and acting head of Planning, Research and Statistics Department, a position he held until his appointment as Acting  Chairman, Benue State Internal Revenue Service on 19th July, 2018.

Signed
Dennis Mernyi

SA (Media and Publicity) to the EC BIRS

NOLLYWOOD ARTISTS AND THE GENERAL PUBLIC SHOULD HENCEFORTH TAKE NOTE OF THE FOLLOWING

1. Professional nurses are being misrepresented by Nigerian artists and film makers.

2. Not all in white uniforms are professionally registered nurses. What is shown as nurse’s activities in the video films, soap operas and stage plays does not represent Nigerian nurses but the activities of quacks in the cottage hospitals they might have had contact with.

3, Nurses have no time to engage in mere gossips but we brainstorm with ourselves and other professionals to proffer solution to patient’s problems. If you don’t believe go to LUTH, UCH, LASUTH, UBTH FMC jabi, National hospital and other reputable health institutions to catch a glimpse of how busy nurses really are.

4. Nurses don’t sleep around with doctors because we both have different and busy schedules of duty which overwhelms us beyond mere bodily passion. There are laid down professional ethics and principles guiding moral and professional aspects of our profession.

5. Professional Nurses don’t sit by the canter or desk, because we are not receptionists. We are ward managers that coordinates all the activities on the ward, especially issues concerning the patient's welfare. We are patients advocate, the angel on the wards and units.
6. Nursing is a globally recognized profession. Nurses are not messengers nor errand boys or girls to doctors as we are portrayed in your Nollywood films. Rather we are co-managers of patients and authorities on our own. In fact no hospital can experience optimal functioning without the co-ordination of patient-centered activities carried out by professionally trained nurses.

7. We renew our practicing license every three years after undergoing refresher courses. We also  update our knowledge to meet up with modern global standard of practice and acquire in-depth knowledge about patient's conditions and holistic interventions.

When called up into the profession as nurses, we take an oath and pledge which we are mandated to keep up to in the course of our professional practice.

NURSES ARE NOT JUST ANYBODY, WE ARE ANGELS IN DISGUISE. WE ARE SELECTED FEW CALLED TO SALVAGE HUMANITY FROM DISEASES, AND SICKNESSES.
WE ARE DEDICATED TO PROLONGING LIFE AND IF DEATH IS INEVITABLE, ENSURING A PEACEFUL DEATH.

Originally compiled by  Nurse Olufemi Iseyemi Folakemi (DDNS)

Help stop the misrepresentation of Nigerian nurses!
If you are a nurse or friend of nurses, kindly help spread the right information by sharing this message.
Thanks and God bless!